When a loved one dies and we are faced with the grief of an irreparable loss, we must understand and accept this tragic event that has befallen us. It is very difficult to do so. Because of this, a psychological shock after hearing the sad news very often causes people to categorically reject it, and is accompanied by not understanding and complete bewilderment. This is an extremely heavy life burden, and how you cope with it will largely determine the further process of going through grief. We understand it with our minds, but the soul refuses to acknowledge what has happened.