How often we encounter aggression, misunderstanding in communication with loved ones, friends, and colleagues. How hard it is to get your thoughts across without sparking conflict. There are many recommendations that teach manipulation, adjusting yourself, and imposing your views—and such methods do work. But can you build sincere and lasting relationships based on these “psychological tricks”? Matt Kahn is a famous psychotherapist and spiritual teacher. He’s a YouTube sensation—more than 20 million viewers find relief from everyday problems through his heartfelt messages. Matt has been named one of the 100 most influential spiritual leaders of the present, alongside the Dalai Lama and Eckhart Tolle. When the world goes mad, Matt Kahn comes to the rescue. How should we communicate so that there is more love, so it doesn’t “evaporate” when differences arise in how people judge, in views, and in systems of values? Matt Kahn’s “Language of Love” offers ten principles that can be compared to the principles of nonviolent communication, but the author’s ideas are more practical and easy to apply in real life. In the book you’ll find exercises, advice, and personal experience that show how to express respect, achieve understanding, create warm relationships, solve problems, and still remain yourself—without manipulation, but also without sacrificing your desires.
5 reasons to read this book:
1. Effective communication skills: the book teaches you how to express your thoughts and feelings without destroying relationships with others. You’ll learn to listen and understand others, and also to express your point of view skillfully.
2. Strengthening relationships in the family and with a partner: “Language of Love” helps resolve conflicts and create harmonious relationships in the family, and improve interaction with your partner by finding a common language.
3. Professional development: useful for businessmen, managers, and everyone who wants to improve communication in the workplace. You’ll be able to create a more productive and harmonious atmosphere in the team.
4. Self-knowledge: “Language of Love” helps you understand yourself better, recognize your feelings and needs.
5. Raising children: parents and teachers will find valuable guidance in the book on teaching children constructive dialogue skills.
6. Matt Kahn’s “Language of Love” is a unique guide to the world of nonviolent communication, harmonious relationships, and a conflict-free life. This book is a must-read for anyone who has to communicate with someone other than themselves.