Lyudmila Petranovskaya is a well-known psychologist, a laureate of the President of the Russian Federation award in the field of education, and the author of the bestsellers “What to Do If…” and “What to Do If… 2.” Due to the practical importance of Lyudmila Petranovskaya’s books, they have become absolute hits among popular science literature on parenting. This audiobook is worth listening to for every parent. For those who worry about a slight misunderstanding, and for those who have already despaired of finding a common language with their children. We gathered three books into one: “If It’s Hard with a Child,” “A Secret Support: Attachment in a Child’s Life,” and “Self-Mom”—recommendations that can save you and your child from tons of psychological “paperwork.” In the first part, Lyudmila will explain how to learn to navigate complex situations, resolve conflicts, and come out of them with dignity. You’ll understand how to help a child so they grow and develop without spending energy fighting for your love. Step by step, with examples and analysis of situations, the author answers the most frequently asked questions parents have. In the second part of the audiobook, Lyudmila talks about the role of parents in the path to growing up: “How do dependence and helplessness turn into maturity?” and “How do our love and care, year after year, form in a child a secret support that holds their personality like a core?” You will be able to see what truly lies behind children’s “whims,” “spoiling,” “aggression,” and “bad character.” In the third part, Lyudmila provides practical advice for modern moms who strive to give an equal amount of time, effort, and energy to each side of their personality. The simple tricks described in this audiobook will help you avoid victims in the race for two hares: family and career. You’ll understand how it’s possible to manage to do everything without resorting to Mary Poppins, time machine helpers, and magic.