The feeling of loneliness can be a heavy burden. Sometimes it’s connected to overly high expectations from yourself and others, inability to build trusting relationships, fear of being rejected, romantic perfectionism, or excessive self-criticism.
It may seem as if there is a wall of misunderstanding between you and other people, and efforts to get closer lead only to disappointment. Dr. David Burns, a well-known psychiatrist and author of the cognitive-behavioral therapy approach, offers a practical guide to overcoming loneliness. His book is not just a collection of tips, but an intensive course on changing your thinking and social skills. You’ll learn to break the vicious cycle of anxiety, low self-esteem, and negative communication patterns.