There are 12 phrases that set the wheel of our life in motion. Phrases that help maintain emotional connection with loved ones, prevent you from regretting what you did—or from missing something truly important. For example, “Forgive me”—when it’s about a loved one who left you. “Tell me more”—if you need to find out what’s really going on in your child’s life. “No”—when it’s time to defend your boundaries. Each of the 12 phrases is illustrated by stories from Kelly Corrigan’s own life—funny, tragic, silly, and wise. These stories remind you: you’re alive, and therefore you have the right to rejoice, grieve, and make mistakes. Just don’t miss the moment to say those very right words.