The Role Type of Your Man. How to Build a Relationship

Do you think your partner’s behavior is a mystery because a woman can’t understand a man and vice versa? No! That’s a dangerous misconception. A stereotype that can lead you to serious problems in your personal life. Behavior depends largely on temperament and upbringing—not just on gender. Knowing about individual traits—like “a hot-tempered choleric” and “a hurtful melancholic”—isn’t enough. You need to understand what you can expect from a person in different situations—at home, at work, and during leisure! And most importantly, how he feels about you.

The book “Your Man’s Role Type” will help you not only explain your chosen one’s past actions, but also anticipate his future—without fortune-telling and astrology. You’ll understand what he is capable of changing and what will remain unchanged for life. Learn to skillfully use his strengths and put up with what cannot be fixed—because that is part of personality. Find happiness with the one who is already next to you!

For a wide range of readers. The book describes four types of men: each with their own approach to life, they act differently in love, everyday life, career, and society:
— the Screenwriter thinks about everything and creates;
— the Director controls processes and leads;
— the Performer shows himself and longs for recognition;
— the Viewer empathizes and helps others, asking nothing in return.

You’ll learn where it’s more likely to meet each type, how a man behaves during courtship, and how his behavior changes in family life; how he shows himself in conflict situations, and what a woman can realistically do to make the relationship bring joy to both partners and to keep peace in the family.

“People meet, fall in love, get married…” and in many cases, they divorce. Why? The standard answer is “we didn’t match in temperament.” But behind that phrase, very often, there is complete lack of understanding of the partner and ignorance of how to behave with him to preserve love. Take a sober look at your loved one—and at yourself. What are you really like? What do you expect from each other, and how realistic are those expectations? What can be adjusted in your behavior, and what should be accepted without resentment or scandals? How can you become happy in this marriage?

Answering such questions is easier if you know which role type you belong to and which type your chosen one belongs to. Once you identify these types, you’ll better understand both yourself and him. You’ll see what foolish things you did while trying to remake each other. And finally, you’ll create a recipe for correct behavior.

Arik Tatonov, Tatyana Tatonova

For women who find it important to understand men, comprehend the reasons behind their actions, have harmonious trusting relationships, and enjoy communicating with the representatives of the stronger half of humanity.

This book gives readers a unique opportunity to understand male psychology. A happy family—future or already existing—is impossible without mutual understanding between partners. If a woman knows why her partner behaves the way he does, it’s easier for her to accept him as he is, rather than try to change the person. Because that means wanting him to become someone else—not the person she fell in love with. Thanks to the materials in this book, a woman will be able to communicate consciously with a man—with his inherent character traits, behavioral features, and unique communication style—without illusions, fortune-telling about motives, and false expectations.

Arik Tatonov — graduated from the Faculty of Philology of the Institute of Foreign Languages. Writes in different genres—psychology, science fiction and fantasy (the novella “Love from Beyond,” the novels “Fulfillment of Wishes” and “From Skin to Bones”), humor and satire (a collection of stories “About Our Life”), playwriting (the comedic play “Favorite Body”), lyrics (poems for songs).

Tatyana Tatonova with honors graduated from the Faculty of Psychology of Saint Petersburg State University (1993), defended her PhD dissertation (2003). Completed training courses for trainers “Communicative Competence, Personal Growth” (Saint Petersburg, SPbSU), “Group Dance-Movement Therapy” (Moscow, Institute of Practical Psychology and Psychoanalysis). She taught psychological disciplines, managed a Continuing Education Center for staff at the branch of the Moscow Academy of Tourism and Hotel and Restaurant Business. She conducts psychological trainings and provides consulting.

Key concepts
Man, behavior, woman and man, relationships, psychology, marriage, love, responsibility, flirting, sex, family, self-knowledge, freedom, inner world, harmony, happiness