Lecture: "Enemies of Relationships: Resentment, Irritation and Complaints. How to Overcome Them?" (2019)

We ourselves contribute to their development—we look after them and can hardly imagine life without this destructive trio. We are so convinced about what we need to be offended by, what claims we should make to our partner, that any deviation from our beliefs seems almost blasphemous. But what if we try otherwise—despite all the excuses?! That is exactly what the lecture «Enemies of Relationships: Grudges, Irritation, and Complaints» will be about—the possibility of a different approach. Trying something else is entirely possible! Elena Novoselova, psychologist and a member of the Russian Psychotherapeutic League, entered the Institute of Psychology of the Russian Academy of Sciences at the age of 32. Earlier, she graduated from the philosophy department of Moscow State University and worked as a military correspondent for six years. She leads her own program «Sex, Life, and Other Surprises» on Silver Rain, and wrote the books «Alpha Male? Yes!» and «What to Do If You Have a Husband?». Her main work is in counseling and leading her own training programs, and she is also one of the few domestic specialists developing men’s psychology as a separate field.