They solve other people’s problems, look after loved ones, help friends, and provide for parents. Day after day they run from conflicts and try to earn someone else’s approval.
American psychotherapist Robert Glover calls such men “nice guys.” Nice guys believe: if they are good, generous, and caring, then they will be happy, loved, and satisfied with life. But by acting the usual way, nice guys never get what they want.
This book offers an effective healing program for the “nice guy syndrome.”
This isn’t just a few interesting ideas you can try and forget. The book is a serious challenge to everything that, in the nice guys’ view, makes them be loved—and everything that allows them to live without problems. Exercises will help nice guys understand themselves, listen to their dreams, look their own fears in the eye, and free themselves from them. And that means finding confidence in their abilities and inner wholeness.