I Want and I Will: Accept Yourself, Love Life and Become Happy
4 hrs. 41 min.
Description
Psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky is absolutely sure that a person can — and has the right to be — happy, and should do only what they want. This book is about how to understand yourself, find harmony, and learn to enjoy life. The author explores the reasons that hinder psychologically healthy ways of living: where do conscious and unconscious worries and fears come from, why we can’t listen to ourselves, and how we struggle to build relationships with other people?
A distinctive feature of Labkovsky’s approach is concreteness. No matter how complex the question is, he always gives an answer that is as clear as possible. His statements and advice are so radical that many people first have to experience surprise — if not shock. In his recommendations, the author doesn’t hide behind vague formulations; he names the causes of problems clearly. And most importantly, he knows how to solve this problem — without digging into childhood psycho-traumas and without a close analysis of your past. If a person has knowledge and the desire, it’s entirely possible to change themselves and their life for the better.
The goal of any psychologist’s work is the personal happiness and well-being of the patient. The purpose of this book’s publication is the personal happiness of everyone who reads it.
A distinctive feature of Labkovsky’s approach is concreteness. No matter how complex the question is, he always gives an answer that is as clear as possible. His statements and advice are so radical that many people first have to experience surprise — if not shock. In his recommendations, the author doesn’t hide behind vague formulations; he names the causes of problems clearly. And most importantly, he knows how to solve this problem — without digging into childhood psycho-traumas and without a close analysis of your past. If a person has knowledge and the desire, it’s entirely possible to change themselves and their life for the better.
The goal of any psychologist’s work is the personal happiness and well-being of the patient. The purpose of this book’s publication is the personal happiness of everyone who reads it.
Contents:
Foreword
Personality
About the first rule
About the meaning of life
About neurotics
About true desires
About appearance
About compromises
First story — about ours, about a girl’s
Second story — about work
Third story — about friends
Fourth story — about Roman holidays
And the fifth story — about parents
What’s wrong with them?
About men, women, and psychologists
About social networks
About victim psychology
About work and money
About loving yourself (New Year’s message)
About dependency
Getting acquainted
Falling in love
Long-term relationships
Marriage
Didn’t leave — stopped
About desires
About doing nothing
Relationships
About relationships
Act one. The beginning of a relationship
Act two. First difficulties
Act three. Conflicts
Penultimate act. Fear of separation
Final act. Separation
About neurotic relationships
About love and libido
Poetry of libido
Forewarned is forearmed
Healthy connections
About sex
About jerks
About “The Irony of Fate”
Nadya
Ippolit
Now Lukashin
Relationship between Zhenya and Nadya
End of the film
Lessons
“How to dump your beloved if you realize he’s a jerk?”
About getting married
1. You want to marry only hypothetically
2. Marriage for you is a way to solve problems
3. You have an affair with a married man
4. You keep being in the previous relationship in your head (the unfinished relationship syndrome)
About family therapy
Children
About mom’s “cockroaches”
About dad’s “cockroaches”
About the uselessness of reading
About kindergarten
About family and school
About teenagers
About childhood psycho-traumas and adult neurotics
About mothers and sons
How to raise a happy child
About lessons
List of illustrations
Notes
Personality
About the first rule
About the meaning of life
About neurotics
About true desires
About appearance
About compromises
First story — about ours, about a girl’s
Second story — about work
Third story — about friends
Fourth story — about Roman holidays
And the fifth story — about parents
What’s wrong with them?
About men, women, and psychologists
About social networks
About victim psychology
About work and money
About loving yourself (New Year’s message)
About dependency
Getting acquainted
Falling in love
Long-term relationships
Marriage
Didn’t leave — stopped
About desires
About doing nothing
Relationships
About relationships
Act one. The beginning of a relationship
Act two. First difficulties
Act three. Conflicts
Penultimate act. Fear of separation
Final act. Separation
About neurotic relationships
About love and libido
Poetry of libido
Forewarned is forearmed
Healthy connections
About sex
About jerks
About “The Irony of Fate”
Nadya
Ippolit
Now Lukashin
Relationship between Zhenya and Nadya
End of the film
Lessons
“How to dump your beloved if you realize he’s a jerk?”
About getting married
1. You want to marry only hypothetically
2. Marriage for you is a way to solve problems
3. You have an affair with a married man
4. You keep being in the previous relationship in your head (the unfinished relationship syndrome)
About family therapy
Children
About mom’s “cockroaches”
About dad’s “cockroaches”
About the uselessness of reading
About kindergarten
About family and school
About teenagers
About childhood psycho-traumas and adult neurotics
About mothers and sons
How to raise a happy child
About lessons
List of illustrations
Notes
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Лабковский Михаил - Хочу и буду. ч.1 [Аудио Анна, (ЛИ), 2018]
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Лабковский Михаил - Хочу и буду. ч.2 [Аудио Анна, (ЛИ), 2018]
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Лабковский Михаил - Хочу и буду. ч.3 [Аудио Анна, (ЛИ), 2018]
