This audiobook is worth listening to for every parent. For those who worry about a slight misunderstanding, and for those who have already despaired of finding a common language with their children. In it, we combined two books into one: “A Secret Support: Attachment in a Child’s Life” and “If It’s Hard with a Child”—books that can save you and your child from tons of psychological “paperwork.” Often, when we grow up, we forget that once we ourselves were children. In the first part of the audiobook, based on attachment theory, it easily and accessibly explains the role of parents in the path to growing up: “How do dependence and helplessness turn into maturity?” and “How do our love and care, year after year, form in a child a secret support that holds their personality like a core?” You will be able to see what truly lies behind children’s “whims,” “spoiling,” “aggression,” and “bad character.” In the second part, Lyudmila will talk about how to learn to navigate complex situations, resolve conflicts, and come out of them with dignity. You’ll understand how to help your child so they grow and develop without spending energy fighting for your love.