Love. Before and After: About You, About Him, and How Love-Doubt Transforms into Love-Serenity

“Dzen” with an audience of more than 14,000 subscribers. There she speaks openly, with humor and without self-censorship, about human relationships, shares her personal experience, and analyzes readers’ stories—this is why people value her and trust her.

A lone “translator” of meanings into words, living right on the edge. She works under the legend of “wife/mother/writer/columnist/influencer.”

“Love. Before and After” is an exceptionally candid book about women, men, and love. With her characteristic directness and irony, the author tells how the feeling arises, how it grows, and what it eventually turns into over time for beings so different in their nature as “M” and “F.” It helps women better understand male nature, let go of romantic illusions, and replace love-doubt with love-calm. A separate chapter is devoted to infidelity: the typical myths surrounding it and how to heal the “damaged” brain and soul.

“God, help us all, otherwise we’ll torture ourselves and the other person, and waste our life on this, without ever truly living in joy.”