This book provides specific instructions, algorithms, and solutions for what to do in various situations when a man leaves a relationship, or when you find yourself in competition with him. I will explain why this is maximally effective and why it works. The book offers solutions for situations including:
1. You think your man is a narcissist or an abuser.
2. The man disappears into nowhere after many years of being together.
3. The man disappears into nowhere after a few months or after 2–3 years of a relationship.
4. You realize that you put strong pressure on the man in the relationship, but when he leaves, another woman is clearly or implicitly on the horizon.
6. A midlife crisis or other crises in the man’s life.
7. The man explains that a relationship with you is impossible—because of his religion, tradition, or his relationship with relatives.
8. Neurotic relationships.
9. Something strange is happening and nothing is clear.